Welp here we are again, my birthday. The day I use to dread just 3 years ago. Now, not so much. More like welcoming it with open arms. I’m 32 and damn proud! I used to loath getting older. Now, I get excited for the day I can yell for kids to get off my lawn and it be acceptable because I’m the wild, old lady up the road. Until, that day I plan to keep celebrating each year with some fun self portraits (yep, actually made time for it this year) and slight reflection of the years past.
Since my last birthday I have learned/done the following adult-ish things….
Actually started a true skin care routine and sticking to it.
Stopped giving my self permission to dress like a I don’t care JUST because I’m a mom of two and currently have a 1 year old.
Started a capsule wardrobe and being more selective in what I buy (quality over quantity for now on my friends)
Investing more in the friendships that matter.
Started wearing less and less makeup and embracing my actual skin under it all.
Decided bras really are just dumb, so I go with out 80% of the time now. F-U BRAS!
Have discovered silence is sacred
Learned to truly listen to my body when its screaming at me to get help and take it easy. My autoimmune helped me realize this the most. I’m listening body, I’m listening.
Decided to take better care of my self and not just because fad diets tell me to.
Adapted the mantra “Nobody cares, like you think they care.” Thank you Schitts Creek for that one.
Simply put, I have realized most of all age is just a number. And even though I’m 32 and don’t tend to fit in with most women my age and certainly not younger, that it really doesn’t matter. As long as I’m living my most authentic self, and continue to do what I love the most, and love those I hold closest to my heart. I have truly found my happy place. It only took me this long to find it. This is the first time I can truly say I know who I am and see clearly of what I want to accomplish in the future. I thank my clients most of all for that. Hearing each of your stories has opened my eyes in so many ways.
Thank you as always for letting me share with you bits and pieces about me over these years.
Cheers!
Now let’s eat some cake.